Why “Mum and Me” Sessions Mean the World to Me
- Kidi Photography by Ella
- Sep 15
- 3 min read
When I became a mum, I quickly realised something that I’m sure many other mothers will relate to — I’m always behind the camera, never in front of it.
On family days out around Wolverhampton, on trips to Birmingham, during birthday parties and quiet moments at home, it’s me who pulls out the phone, makes sure the light is good, tidies the hair out of their faces, and clicks the shutter at just the right moment. And the result? My camera roll is full of pictures of my children with their dad, laughing, cuddling, exploring — but where am I?
I’m not there.
It’s not because I don’t want to be. I do! But my husband either “forgets” to take pictures, doesn’t think about it, or takes one quick, blurry photo and says “done.” I end up with a million excuses for why I’m not in the frame — “my hair’s messy,” “I don’t feel like it today,” “I’ll ask next time.”
And then I realised… if I keep waiting, there may never be a next time.
The Invisible Mum Problem
I know I’m not alone. There are hundreds of mums like me across the West Midlands. We plan the trips, pack the bags, remember the snacks, make sure the children have matching socks, and document all the memories — but we’re rarely part of them.
When my children grow up and look back at their childhood photos, I don’t want them to see me missing from the story. I don’t want to be the “invisible mum.” I want them to see the way I looked at them with love, the way they snuggled into my arms, the way we laughed together.
And that’s why Mum and Me photoshoots are so important.
Why These Sessions Matter
A Mum and Me photoshoot isn’t just about pretty pictures. It’s about celebrating the most powerful relationship in your child’s life — the bond between you and them. It’s about creating tangible memories that will last for generations.
Your children deserve to see you in their story. They deserve to have photographs where you are holding them, kissing them, laughing with them — proof of how loved they were, not just from your words but from something they can see and hold in their hands.
As a Wolverhampton photographer and a mum myself, I pour my heart into these sessions because I know how much they mean. I know how easy it is to disappear from your own family album. And I know that one day, these photos will become treasures — for you, for your children, and for their children too.
Studio or Outdoor? Your Choice
Every mum and every family is unique, which is why I offer two beautiful ways to capture these memories:
✨ Glamour Sessions in the StudioIf you’re looking for a more polished and editorial feel, my Mum and Me studio sessions in Wolverhampton are perfect for you. I focus on every detail — elegant lighting, flattering poses, beautiful styling — to create timeless portraits that you will cherish forever.
🌿 Cosy Outdoor SessionsIf you prefer something more relaxed and natural, my outdoor motherhood sessions in Birmingham, Wolverhampton, and across the West Midlands are full of warmth, connection, and spontaneity. I encourage cuddles, play, and real laughter so that your gallery feels like a story of a perfect afternoon together. These sessions are perfect if you love candid, emotion-filled images.
Whichever option you choose, you will walk away with professional, high-quality photographs that truly reflect the love you share with your children.
The Magic Between Mum and Child
There is something absolutely magical about the bond between a mother and her child. It’s in the way they reach for you without thinking, the way your touch instantly soothes them, the way their whole face lights up when you smile.
Capturing that connection is my favourite part of my work. During a Mum and Me session, I create a calm, warm space where you can simply be present with your children while I document the love between you. No stress, no pressure, no need to pose perfectly — just you, your children, and the magic you share.

Don’t Be the Missing Piece
If, like me, you’re usually behind the camera, I encourage you to step in front of it — for you, and for your children. You deserve to be seen in your family’s story.
Mum and Me sessions are available in my Wolverhampton studio or outdoors in beautiful, natural locations throughout Birmingham and the West Midlands. Whether your children are newborns, toddlers, or teens, there’s never a wrong time to create these memories.
📸 Let’s make sure you are in the picture. You can learn more and book your session on my website

















































































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